Mothers
Dear Bro. Don,
I was at first pleased to see an article on “Mothers” in the September magazine. I am thankful to have been able to be a stay-at-home Mom and am concerned to see sister-mothers working full time outside the home.
I was disturbed, however, at the tone of the article which seems to put men down and elevate women. Where in scripture are we led to believe that “the distinctive duties of woman are more sacred, more holy, than those of man.” I think the spiritual development of our children is a combined effort. As sisters, we are greatly helped by our husband’s support, the ecclesial structure our brethren provide and the many books and magazines produced by brethren. Of course, the help of our Heavenly Father and His word is of utmost importance in this matter.
In the article, men are presented as spending their time with things that must perish while the mother works for eternity. It suggests we would be astonished if we knew how much more favorably God views the work of mothers than fathers. Who are we to decide how God judges? It is said that “the man frequently comes home with a satisfied air;” that he expects to be waited on; that he may criticize and censure. I do not think this is fair to the many faithful brethren who do a days work (which surely is important and part of God’s will) and come home to share their time and spiritual resources with their wives and children. Then they often go on to do hours of ecclesial work.
From experience, I think that a sister at home has a lot more control over her time, except when the children are very young. A brother’s demands are often very great.
Finally, I do not like to think of myself as “queen” in my household. My mind went immediately to what the Bible has to say of the queen of heaven.
I think it is a good thing to emphasize the importance of a mother’s role but it must be done with balance and not at the expense of men.
Sincerely in our Lord Jesus,
Pam Snobelen, Vancouver, BC
Very astute observations. As indicated, the article was edited from its original form, but obviously not edited enough. There can be little doubt that a lay system makes a significant difference in the activities of husbands and fathers. The original writer of the article was in a community with the normal pastor system. We see that reflected in the depiction of the activities of her “typical” fathers.
While scripture may not describe mothers as “queen” of the house, it does use some strong words in conveying their importance. They should “guide the house,” (KJV) or “rule the house” (translation by A. Way) or be “managing the household” (Concordant Literal translation) (I Tim. 5:14). Literally the Greek word is “house despot” which conveys the strength of the mother’s influence on the household.
Home Schooling
Dear Bro. Don:
A point that caught my eye in the August issue (pg. 343) may need some clarification or correction. In your response to one of the home schooling letters, you comment that “secular schooling is to prepare individuals for the temporal aspects of their lives, i.e., to make a living.” This may be true in some instances. But we need to be aware that there are social activists whose avowed purpose is to mold our young people into new social thought patterns. They are attempting to do this through the school.
There are people who want to throw out “old-fashioned” morality and replace it with libertarian ideas. If they can capture and train the minds of the young, they can transform society in one generation. Gay rights activists spring to mind in this regard, as do those who would promote free sex and abortion on demand. Don’t think that schools exist only to teach and train a workforce. Schools increasingly are being used to pursue a liberal social agenda.
I commend your family’s regular re-schooling of children in God’s way, to try to counteract the worldly teaching of the public schools. All parents need to be aware of the need for this as the day of the Lord approaches.
Yours in Christ,
John Linsenmeier, Mentor, OH,
Church of the Blessed Hope
Your comments are completely appropriate for the school system attended by our boys. The trend was particularly noticeable in the “values clarification” and sex education sessions.
At first, this caught us by surprise. We were expecting to counter indoctrination in love of country above all else and some evangelizing regarding evolution. But we had not realized the extent to which those advocating amoral values had infiltrated the school system. Their appeal is cleverly concealed behind the idea of mutual respect for the standards of others. But as you point out, the standards we’re being asked to respect are approving of the worst forms of decadence which, when practiced, bring down the wrath of God upon society.
Bethany Beyond Jordan
(See “Tidings,” p. 410, footnote #4 for background to discussion regarding a possible Bethany located near the Jordan River. This would be in addition to the Bethany located on the eastern side of the Mt. of Olives.)
Dear Bro. Don,
Greetings in the Hope of eternal life.
My reference to the Bethany beyond Jordan as the location of our Lord just prior to his coming to Bethany near Jerusalem is based upon a reading of John 10:40,41 (NIV).
“Then Jesus went back across the Jordan to the place where John had been baptizing in the early days. Here he stayed and many people came to him.” According to John’s text, just prior to that, many of the Jews had attempted to stone him. That had taken place in the “winter” (John 10:22).
Identifying that place “across the Jordan” as Bethany does require some evidence. In John 1:28, it is stated in the KJV that, “These things were done in Bethabara beyond Jordan, where John was baptizing.” That, of course, says Bethabara in the English version. While it does in the English translation, it appears that many of the Greek texts do not favor that name. The 1881 “Novum Testamentum Graece,” with textual notes by Alexander Souter and based upon the ancient Greek manuscript called Codex Siniaticus which was discovered by C. Tischendorf, contains the Greek term Bet hania rather than Bethabara. Bethania is also favored by the “Emphatic Diaglott,” by a special UBS edition of the New Testament edited by Nestle, Black, Netzger and Wikgren, by the third UBS edition of the Greek New Testament (known as the 26th edition of the Nestle-Aland “Novum Testamentum Graece,” with textual notes by Barbara and Timothy Friberg) and by the “Greek Majority Text.” The last named version is somewhat peculiar in that it contains the word Bethania in the Greek, but renders it as “Bethabara,” in the New King James parallel text.
The final witness we appeal to is the translator Bruce Metzger. In his “A Textual Commentary On The Greek New Testament,” pg. 199, he writes, “The earliest and most widely attested reading is Bethania. Origen, who in his travels was unable to locate a Bethany by the Jordan, adopted the reading Bethabara, which he apparently found in a few copies current in his day (he declares, however, that Bethania is the reading of ‘nearly all the manuscripts’)…”
While not overwhelming, we felt the greatest evidence favors the “place on the other side of the Jordan” being Bethany. It seems somewhat ironic that there would be two towns by that name on either side of the Jordan, since Israel settled on both sides of the Jordan, especially if the name indicates “house of unripe figs.”
Regardless of the precise location or name of the place where Jesus was, it was where John had baptized earlier, just on the other side of the Jordan, and was not a great distance from the Bethany of Lazarus, Mary and Martha.
Love in our Lord,
Troy Haltom
Clarification Regarding Statements of Faith
While correspondence on this topic has been closed, Bro. Alan Eyre requested it be quite specifically indicated he is in 100% agreement with Bro. John Carter’s comments as published in the Tidings, 10/94, pg. 397.
David in the Psalms
Dear Uncle Don,
I have a question about the article, “David–the Fugitive Years.” As my Mom and I were reading the article, I noticed there weren’t any Psalms listed when David was a shepherd. Are there any from this time period? If so, could you send them to mark in my Bible? Thank you.
Yours truly,
Joel Miles, Fergus, ONT
Uncle Don forwarded Joel’s letter (Joel is 10) to Uncle Ron who supplied the following answer.
I was pleased to receive Joel’s letter and to learn that he has been following the series on David. It is rewarding to find young people taking an interest in these matters.
The question requests a list of possible psalms written by David when he was a shepherd boy. As far as we can determine, the only psalms which we can, with any certainty, identify with this period are Psalms 8 and 144.
In our first article, we listed these psalms under the heading, “David the Warrior,” a reference to David’s encounter with Goliath. At this time, David was still looking after his father’ s sheep on the hillsides of Bethlehem as is noted in I Samuel 17:15-16: “But David went and returned from Saul to feed his father’s sheep at Bethlehem. And the Philistine [Goliath] drew near morning and evening and presented himself forty days.”
Psalms 8 and 144
While Psalm 8 is generally accepted as David’s victory psalm over Goliath, or the death of a champion (muth-labben), some may have difficulty in accepting Psalm 144 as referring to the same period. Verse 3 of Psalm 144 is a quotation from Psalm 8:4, linking the two psalms together and the Septuagint (an ancient translation of the Old Testament into the Greek language) gives the title to Psalm 144 as, “A Psalm of David concerning Goliad,” a reference to Goliath.
We would suggest that Psalm 144 describes the thoughts of David as he set out to meet Goliath, praying that Yahweh would “rescue [him] , and deliver [him] from the hand of strange children [the uncircumcised Philistines] , whose mouth speaketh vanity [a reference to Goliath’s defiance of God — I Sam. 17:26]” (v. 11). On the other hand, Psalm 8 expresses David’s elation after his victory over Goliath, “Out of the mouth of babes and sucklings hast thou ordained strength because of thine enemies, that thou mightest still the enemy and the avenger” (v. 2).
Why not more early psalms?
It may be asked why are there not more psalms identified with this early period of David’s life. The answer possibly has something to do with the work of inspiration.
We are told that all scripture is given by inspiration of God and the writings of David are no exception.
According to Acts 2:30, David was a prophet; God spake “by the mouth of his servant David” (Acts 4:25), and this work was accomplished by the Holy Spirit (II Pet. 1:21). David did not receive the spirit of God until his teenage years, while he was tending his father’s sheep (I Sam. 16:11-13) shortly before the time that he challenged Goliath. Therefore, we may conclude that his psalms, while reflecting the experiences of this period [e.g. Psalm 23 ed.], were written later with the exception of Psalms 8 and 144.
Very truly yours,
Uncle Ron