There is no doubt that the pressure and pace of life is greater now than a generation ago. Suddenly in the 1990s, because of the wonders of modern technology, our personal time became our employer’s time. It became an age when it was as easy to work at home as in the office. On top of that, for brethren, there were still the family and ecclesial responsibilities. And as if that were not enough, during the past ten years or so, the influence of all media have grown enormously. The “in your face” seductive (and often explicit) messages can so quickly undermine the faith and holiness of any saint, young or old!
On Friday evening, October 27, 2006, forty brethren from as far away as England and the western United States gathered for the first eastern Brothers’ Weekend. The occasion began with a welcome and the daily Bible readings. Then on Saturday there were four sessions, each opened by a presentation and followed by group discussions. During the day there was plenty of time for fellowship: the building of friendships, sharing of prayers, and personal discussion were part of this lovely day. Even the very wet, snowy weather did not dampen the enjoyment of the weekend. Sunday included a fifth session, and a breaking of bread.
The entire occasion was one where the pressures of life, as outlined above, were discussed in an atmosphere of godly love and trust.
Based on the life of David, the topics included:
- Building friendship among brethren (led by Bre. Gary Cousens and Martin Webster)
- Balancing family, the ecclesia and work (led by Bro. Matthew Trowell)
- Sexuality and self-control (led by Bro. Don Styles)
- Competition (led by Bro. Mike LeDuke)
- Leadership (led by Bro. David Lloyd)
- Mentoring (the memorial service exhortation, by Bro. Don Styles)
Each of the first five sessions was allocated 75 minutes, for the initial presentation and group discussion. It was no surprise that each session proved to be too short!
Everyone left after lunch on Sunday, feeling a little stronger for the battle. Each greatly appreciated the friendships they had built, and the trust that had grown among brothers. Each gave thanks to our Heavenly Father for the wonder of His grace.
Brothers, do mark in your calendar November 9-11, 2007: the next eastern Brothers’ Weekend. Plan to join us for what, God willing, will be a time to heal and a time to build.