- Know your partner’s likes, dislikes, goals, strengths, etc. It contributes to mutual understanding.
- Be a good companion by being a good listener. Monopolizing conversation limits our learning curve and irritates the other.
- Be each other’s best friend by sharing quality time, thoughts and ideas. Regular conversation helps to learn about each other and can forge common approaches to deal with problems.
- Try always to be on positive speaking terms with each other. Should you quarrel, be eager to make up before the sun goes down.
- Continue to be courteous and helpful as on your first date. Bring home little gifts occasionally to say “I love you.”
- Pay sincere compliments readily, and show appreciation for little things. Never take each other for granted.
- Avoid nagging, an argumentative spirit and abusive language. Never embarrass each other in public.
- Beware of silly jealousies and envy.
- Trust each other. It’s a binding influence.
- Formulate guidelines to be observed when controversial issues or big decisions come under discussion.
- Always discuss your disagreements calmly and be willing to compromise.
- Be willing to forgive. Remember, God forgives you only when you forgive the other.
- Worship and serve God together. Nothing is more binding than mutual devotion to God and sharing the same spiritual values.
- Play together, make time for a morning or evening walk or jog, etc. and chat pleasantly together.
- Avoid making important decisions on your own, especially when it involves jobs, children, in-laws, or money.
- Plan little domestic projects and work at them together.
- Keep the physical relationship in your marriage exciting and creative. Give careful attention to your partner’s physical needs.
- Maintain your appearance by simple and affordable clothing. Dine out occasionally. Enjoy the little things in life together and show enthusiasm for your partner’s special interests.
The Origin of the Organic World – Part One