Encouragement
Dear Brother Don,
Loving greetings in Christ Jesus.
As one who has subscribed to the “Tidings” many years, originally as a result of a visit to U.S.A. 15 years ago and subsequent associations with Bro. Bob Lloyd, I would like to thank you for the sound and balanced writings which you have written since assuming the editorship. I have particularly appreciated your comments in the editorials and your comments on various topics in “Letters to the Editor.” …Along with my remittance, I take the opportunity to comment on a number of matters in the May, 1991 issue.
Thief like coming
I believe your editorial, “Maintaining the Momentum” contains some well-needed exhortation. Those of us who have lived through the past 40-50 years have witnessed a number of climactic crises in the Middle East– 1948, 1956, 1967, 1973, 1982 and now the recent Gulf War.
These situations have had a very great impact upon the brotherhood and have, to a degree, awakened us to the reality that we are living in “the time of the end.” Ecclesias worldwide have had a resurgence of activity and these significant events have caused many young people to commit themselves to Christ in baptism. But, as you have correctly said, the evidence of Scripture is that Christ will not come to the household at a time of international crisis or war but rather “in such an hour as ye think not the Son of Man cometh.” The emphasis by Christ, and the apostle Paul in I Thess. 5 upon his “thief like coming” and the exhortations to watchfulness reinforce the warnings that the household may be taken unawares.
It is in times of comparative “peace and safety (security)” that we tend to relax our guard and many prophecies indicate that the Lord will come at such a time. Let us “Gird up the loins of our mind;” let us be actively involved that we may not be unprepared for his coming.
Overreaction to immediate events
The recent Gulf War has also led to a resurgence of interest in Bible prophecy, which is commendable, but there is a danger that we may become too much influenced by the immediate events. This has always been a problem with our community.
Back in 1877, when the Turkish-Russian War occurred, a well known brother is said to have made the comment in a public lecture that “within six weeks Russia will have occupied Constantinople!” Even Bro. Roberts at that time suggested the imminent return of the Jewish Diaspora in their multitudes.
Similarly, both in WW I and WW II, brethren assumed the early demise of Russia would result in Germany taking over the mantel of the king of the north; but sober-minded brethren like C.C. Walker and John Carter warned against such assumptions.
These premature assumptions should have warned us of the danger of jumping to conclusions. Yet today, because Israel is surrounded by hostile Arab nations vowed to destroy her, some have assumed they will do so and cite for support scriptures such as Psalm 83 which does not have any obvious “Latter-Day” application. It is unwise to assume that any prophecy is related to our times unless it specifically so states.
Furthermore, to attempt to use scriptures to support our own theories, whether in prophecy or doctrine, is dangerous since it may be wresting Scripture. Bible prophecy is intended to confirm the faith of the believer, not to be used for political prognostication.
The words of Jesus in Luke 21:28 are relevant here, “When these things begin to come to pass then look up, and lift up your heads; for your redemption draweth nigh.” In other words, world events reveal to us the unerring infallibility of Scripture and confirm us in our faith. The writer believes that the general principles of prophetic interpretation as presented by our pioneer brethren were soundly based. Although, as they were living in a different age, some of their speculations were premature.
Agree on Ezekiel 38 and Edom
Our orthodox interpretation of Ezekiel 38 is, I believe, soundly based even though it indicates that Israel will be dwelling “safely all of them dwelling without bars and gates.” This may seem far removed from their present situation, but in view of the transformation of Eastern Europe two years ago, we know that situations can change very rapidly. Let us be patient and we may yet see drastic events in the Middle East. The fact that we think such a scenario is unlikely does not mean it will not occur.
Your article, “Israel’s Last Defeat by Russia not Arabs” in the May issue has, I submit, correctly summed up the situation. As you so rightly stated, Edom is to be “a perpetual desolation” and the fate of Edom is similar to that of Babylon. What evidence is there to suggest that Edom represents the Arabs? Ishmael is the Arabs. Edom, as you said, is associated with the descendants of Adam, a view I have held for some years, and represents flesh in political and military manifestation antagonistic to Christ and has reference to the Gogian confederacy (see Isaiah 34).
Lines of fellowship needed
Finally, Bro. Don, may I comment upon the letter from Bro. David Jenkins in regard to “Lines of Fellowship.”
Although I write from an Australian perspective, I had many years of ecclesial life in the UK, and in any case these problems are worldwide.
Fellowship involves a personal relationship with God through Christ. Our baptism has united us with “the whole counsel of God” and our fellowship is based upon a common agreement upon “The things concerning the Kingdom of God and the Name of Jesus Christ.” Unless we are of one mind in relation to these things as expressed in our Statement of Faith, we have no fellowship. We have each committed ourselves to uphold these principles individually and ecclesially. But if any individual, or an ecclesia, repudiates these things or upholds those who do so, there is no basis for fellowship. Those who reject these principles have rejected the principles fundamental to the Christadelphian position since its inception last century.
We agree that there should be no “witch hunt.” But when there is incontrovertible evidence of departure from these principles, in practice or belief, there is no basis of fellowship and we must separate.
I believe that in all continents that principle was reaffirmed in the 1950’s in words like these: “If an ecclesia sets out by design to propagate at large false doctrine it will be necessary to dissociate from such an ecclesia.” That has always been the stand of the Central Fellowship for nearly 150 years and I believe we would ignore it at our peril.
With kind regards in Christ Jesus, Sincerely your brother,
Hubert E. Taylor,
Launceston, Tasmania, Australia
While this letter is longer than we normally publish, we felt it would be of interest to many readers. With respect to current world developments, we would suggest readers watch two items in particular: one, the continued existence of a huge Russian military capability and second, the development of a hi-tech industry in Israel. The first of these is the subject of Bro. Rayner’s article in the “Signs of the Times.” The second is something that has matured in the last three years and holds potential for making Israel a truly prosperous country.
Freedom of Religion in Israel
Dear Bro. Don,
Greetings in our one hope.
I read with interest Bro. George Rayner’ s “Signs of the Times” in the August issue of the “Tidings.”
In his assessment of God’s view of the present Israeli government’s policy regarding freedom of worship for its citizens, he writes: “because of this policy, God is manifesting His displeasure by using natural resources [e.g. shortage of water] to punish them.”
While it is true that God detests all forms of false religion, it seems unreasonable to conclude that the present Israeli government will be, or should be expected to be, the instrument by which that nation’s sins will be purged.
We need to remind ourselves that the present Israeli government and its people do not acknowledge Christ as Messiah and that is the basic cause of all their calamities. This will continue to be so until they shall say, “Blessed is he that comes in the name of the LORD”(Psa. 118:22-29).
Yours in Christ,
Gil Phillips, 42623 Pinecliff
Dr., Lake Elizabeth, CA 93532
The comments of Bro. Rayner and of Bro. Phillips reflect an ironic situation that is presently true of any governing power. Today, a national policy of freedom of religion is beneficent only because of the chronic wickedness of mankind. Such a practice is not God’s desire nor will it be true in the kingdom.
Israel was selected as a special nation before God because of the failure of mankind as a whole to walk in God’s way. This failure led to the flood, the confusion of tongues at Babel and the selection of Abraham from whom God would develop a special nation among the peoples of the world.
As God’s peculiar people, Israel was not to permit freedom of religion and their allowing such freedom led to their downfall. In the mercy of God, however, their fall led to the proclamation of the gospel to the Gentiles as He called out of every people those who would respond to the Truth. In this new circumstance, God’s own people live under a great variety of human governments and are greatly benefited when such governments permit them to openly worship correctly. We are, in fact, to pray that freedom of religion be the law of the land and we must be very thankful when such is actually the case. While freedom of religion is a blessing, it is so only because mankind, as a whole, refuses to worship God aright.
The present situation in secular Israel is consistent with the hypocrisy which led to their 2,000 years of oppression. As Bro. Leslie and Sis. Edith Johnson discovered when they lived in Israel, the Truth cannot be freely proclaimed there no matter what public laws may theoretically set forth. Thus, in practice, the actions of the Israelis continue to justify the special difficulties that are experienced by this special people. Nevertheless, because of God’s promises to the fathers, we are to seek Israel’s eternal welfare.
Reading Yahweh for LORD
Dear Bro. Don,
I am writing in regard to the growing practice among brothers and sisters of substituting the word “Yahweh” for “LORD” when reading from the Scripture. I was not aware of how popular this practice was becoming until I attended Bible school this summer. I heard several speakers do this consistently and, by talking with brethren from other ecclesias, I realized that many Christadelphians were adopting this habit.
It seems to me that this practice is at the very least unnecessary. It may even be giving a false impression to the children in our ecclesias and to those whom we are introducing to the Truth.
The God who we worship is not a God of words, but rather of meaning. It does not matter that we refer to God by a particular sound in a specific language. The importance lies in the respect and understanding behind that word. The Lord intended that His plan and purpose would be readily apparent in the Bible and independent of translation in a particular time or place. God’s message is purposefully intended to cut across the barriers of language and culture. By referring to God by a Hebrew word that no one ever uses in their common speech, one can get the impression that this is a “special” term that only those “in the know” truly comprehend. God’s message is accessible to all men and women, not only to those with some special knowledge or ability.
It is interesting to note some comments made by Bro. Roberts when responding to a question concerning words used when a person was baptized:
“You were baptized — not into a word, but into a reality. This reality is the divine existence and purpose. It matters little by what collation [arrangement] of sounds that reality was expressed at the time of your immersion. God, Deity, Father, Son, Holy Spirit, Jesus,Yahweh,Yahoshua are all but the verbal symbols of the reality to which the understanding and obedience of the truth introduced you — not the reality itself.” Christadelphian, June, 1874. Iris our responsibility to maintain the understanding of that reality and convey it to others. I believe that we can best maintain our understanding and preach to others by relating the reality of God’s name in the same language in which we live and think. It does not matter whether we worship in English, Spanish, French, or any other modern language. What does matter is that we approach God with the proper appreciation of His character and of our relationship with Him. God does not require us to become amateur ancient Greek or Hebrew scholars to worship Him effectively. God does ask us to apply in our lives the general principles found in the Bible and repeated so many times that those lessons are obvious when translated into any language.
I am not saying that it is wrong to use “Yahweh:” it is, after all, just another word. However, when a brother or sister uses it consistently as a substitute for the modern version, they must ask themselves if it is really necessary. It is a matter of priorities, for when we use God’s name, we are sending a message to our youth and to the world that we are trying to reach. What is most relevant to our lives and to their lives? Do we want to concentrate on the things represented by God’s name or is the exact word expressed of greater importance?
Your Brother,
Andy Bilello, Baltimore, MD
“Yahweh” is not just another word in the Hebrew text of the Bible. Recognizing this and noting how the inspired New Testament handles quotations from the Old Testament actually strengthens Bro. Andy’s point.
In the Hebrew, “Yahweh” is the proper name of God as Adam and David are the proper names of those individuals. As with “Adam” and “David,” “Yahweh” has special significance. It alludes to the divine intent to glorify a host of humans, bestowing upon them His very nature.
Curiously, this highly significant name is not handled by the inspired New Testament in the same manner as other proper names. For example, the Hebrew characters Aleph, Daleth, Mem are used for Adam and also for the color red (note Zech. 1:8– “red [Aleph, Daleth, Mem] horses”). When referring to Adam, the NT does not translate Aleph, Daleth, Mem into red (which would be the Greek purrhos) but imitates the sound of the Hebrew letters with the Greek letters Alpha, Delta, Alpha, Mu (ADAM). It transliterates rather than translates this proper name. That is how proper names are normally handled in any translation process. In other words, the sound of the original name is imitated in the foreign language as nearly as possible. We are following this practice when we read “Yahweh” for the Hebrew characters Yod, He, Vav, He (YHVH).
Yet when inspired New Testament writers quote the Old Testament, they make an exception to this general rule when they come to YHVH. Instead of transliterating “Yahweh” or even translating it “I will be,” they interpret it by using the Greek kurios which is the common word for “lord” — one who has authority and must be served (e.g. Matt. 4:7 citing Deut. 6:16). In other words, they do exactly what Bro. Andy has indicated so that the concept of God’s rulership might be conveyed to Greek-speaking people.
Interestingly, on one occasion when a title of Deity is transliterated, Yahweh is still rendered “the Lord” but the Hebrew for “of hosts” is transliterated: “Except the Lord of Sabaoth had left us…” (Rom. 9:29 citing Isa. 1:9).
Many English versions follow the precedent of the inspired New Testament when they render YHVH “the LORD.” Our puzzlement is why do some of our brethren insist on ignoring the guidance of the inspired New Testament and transliterate YHVH into “Yahweh.”
We hope they do so out of a sense of reverence and of awe at the beauty of the divine purpose alluded to in the name “Yahweh.” Yet their practice does ignore God’s own inspired guideline of how His name should be handled when the original Hebrew is translated into a foreign language. We have that clear guideline in the New Testament quotations of the Old Testament. We think that should be sufficient for ourselves and that when orally reading the Old Testament we should read “the LORD” and not substitute “Yahweh.”
Successful Youth Conference
Dear Bro. Don,
Greetings in the Hope of Israel.
As you are well aware, the fifth annual youth conference on Manitoulin Island, ONT has just finished. It was a tremendous success this year. About 80 young people and 12 older brethren and sisters enjoyed a week of fellowship around I Timothy. This is an increase of over 50% from previous years and we were well represented globally. Young people from southern Ontario were joined by some from British Columbia, North Carolina, Colorado, Illinois, Washington ,New York, Michigan, Indiana, California, Australia and the UK.
The daily activities commenced with discussion groups of 12-14 people focusing on a particular section of the epistle. This gave a great opportunity for those who fear Yahweh to speak one to another and think upon His name. We were in camping groups of five or six people who ate, slept, read and did daily chores together, having all things common…
We also had the opportunity to knock on some of the doors in the local communities and invite people to a lecture on the Middle East. This was putting in practice the will of Godwho desires “all men to be saved, and to come to a knowledge of the truth” (1 Tim. 2 :4). We were encouraged by the presence of two visitors.
In the evening, Bro. Frank Abel gave us some very stimulating and challenging addresses based on I Timothy. We learned how we “ought to behave ourselves in the house of God, which is the ecclesia of the living God, the pillar and ground of the Truth” (I Tim. 3:15).
Our nights concluded with a devotional around the campfire followed by a study hour with Bro. Don Styles for those requiring less sleep and who were eager to study more from God’s word.
Overall, it was another very successful conference and plans are underway for 1992 when, God willing, we will be studying Matt. 5,6 and 7.
Love in Christ,
Chris Sales, for the committee.
Bible School Costs
Dear Bro. Don,
Many “Tidings” readers who attend Bible schools are increasingly aware of the continual increases in rates charged by our host school. These increases were particularly hurtful in 1991 because of the recession.
Ideally, we would like to see all of our ecclesial members, and especially all of our Sunday school scholars, attend a Bible school of their choice. The spiritual blessings that we receive from a week of Bible study shared together are a vital source of encouragement and strength for all of us (note Mal. 3:16).
At the present time, the single most burdensome obstacle to the goal of 100% attendance is the continual increase in rates. Many of our families can no longer afford to attend ow schools. Various methods are being tried to overcome this obstacle but each one has it limitations.
One suggestion that offers a partial solution to the problem is to have each ecclesia set aside all or part of their Sunday school collections from now until next July so that every Sunday school scholar will have the opportunity to attend a Bible school. This spreads the collection effort out over the year, and, by regular announcements, keeps everyone aware of the problem.
This suggestion does not solve the problem of adult attendance. However, there are approximately 40 weeks from now until Bible school season. If each adult can set aside $5 – $6 per week, their costs will likewise be covered. Beyond that, in cases of extreme hardship, individual ecclesial funds can be used to supplement the cost.
There may well be other solutions to this continuing problem. It would be most helpful if your readers would contribute their suggestions and comments on alternative solutions.
Alvan Brittle, 5605 Catoctin Ridge
Dr., Mt. Airy, MD 21771.
“Revelation” Study Help
Dear Bro. Don,
We have, with the use of the Online Bible program for the KJV and its related Strong’s Concordance and lexicon, completed a word byword, verse by verse study of the book of the Revelation of Jesus Christ.
The format consists of 300 pages of 8.5″ x 11″ photocopied text which is punched for a three-ring binder. The cost is presently set at $25.00.
Available from The DoveTree Press, Box 1317, Levittown, PA 19058.
Which brings another matter to mind. Why cannot American Christadelphians have their own publishing house to put their writings about the Bible and the Truth before the public?…
When we import books and leaflets from overseas, it is extremely hard to deal with the existing powers that be. The cost for shipping and handling to a small ecclesia, and for an individual working in isolation is quite often just too much…
Sincerely and in the service of the Lord Jesus Christ,
Lois L. Griffith, Moorestown, NJ
Two points need to be made regarding the idea of an American Christadelphian publishing house.
The Detroit Christadelphian Book Supply, operating from 14676 Berwick and 14651 Auburndale both in Livonia, MI 48154, buys books, leaflets, etc., in quantity from the Christadelphian Office, Logos Publications, The Christadelphian Scripture Study Service and private publishing efforts and makes them available at reasonable per piece prices. Simply request their catalog.
Second, we have had little success in selling most materials to the American brotherhood. For example, we bought 50 copies of an issue of the Biblical Archaeology Review which featured a long article by two Christadelphians. We sold three of them at our cost of $3.00 each and are left with 47 on hand. Another example — in 1986, we printed 1,500 copies of “Bible Jeopardy.” We have sold 250 in England, 400 in Australia and 150 in North America leaving a balance of 700. We sold the item at our cost of $3.00 which means we have not recovered $2,100 of funds from 1986.
For these reasons we are not encouraged to expand our own publishing activities nor are we inclined to urge others to start up a new endeavor in this regard.
Comments on I Cor. 10,11
Dear Bro. Haltom:
I am writing with regard to your notes on I Cor. 10 and 11 and your request for comments.
The apostle Paul’s advice to the men and women in the ecclesia at Corinth on prophesying and praying — he with his head uncovered, and she with her head covered — comes right in the middle of references to the breaking of bread. Those references are in! Cor. 10:16-22 and 11:20-34. Paul’s reference to eating meat offered to idols (10:22-33) is a digression, which is a common technique in his writings.
I would suggest that the prophesying and praying were done in the ecclesia’ s breaking of bread service as both men and women are admonished together as to how they should appear — he without a head covering and she with one. Things had become careless at Corinth and the brethren were prophesying as the holy spirit dictated with shawls over their heads. The women were doing the opposite –forgetting their shawls.
The next step is found in I Cor. 14 where the brethren are instructed on how to conduct the meeting and the sisters are told they must be silent. Other things were out of order in Corinth and the apostle took one thing at a time as he made his suggestions and corrections.
I feel very positive the sisters were praying and prophesying at the breaking of bread service. Of course, I wasn’t there. There is no evidence to prove otherwise.
The breaking of bread service is a service of symbols — the body and blood of Jesus our savior symbolized in the bread and wine.
The uncovered head of the brother representing the glory of God and the covered head of the sister representing the ecclesia in need of redemption are symbols which beautifully illustrate, in visible and very personal form, the purpose of this service.
Your sister in Christ,
June Renshaw, 1805 Tunis Road,
Silver Spring, MD 20903
You have presented one of the alternative viewpoints — that I Cor. 11:1-16 refers specifically to the breaking of bread. We do not believe I Cor. 10 confirms that setting.
In I Cor. 8, Paul begins his response to a matter that could split the ecclesia:
“Now as touching things offered to idols…” He is dealing with our liberty in Christ. In 9:4, he asks, “Have I not power to eat and to drink?” And then he continues to consider several other rights he has but does not exercise for the sake of the gospel. The general context of chapter 10 is the same. Idolatry was a grievous danger. Brethren and sisters could be lured back to its practice if they did not realize how wholly incompatible it was with Christ. Furthermore, stronger brethren, who realized idols were nothing, needed to restrict their own conduct for the sake of the conscience of weaker ones. References to the “Lord’s table” in chapter 10 are thus in the context of this consideration, rather than that of a general consideration of the breaking-of-bread service.
This is significant when reading the first part of I Cor. 11. Reference regarding head coverings is not particularly in the context of the memorial service.
Two other points should be noted. There is much evidence that believers met frequently during the week. This was certainly the case at the beginning in Jerusalem (Acts 2:46). And writings of the early second century indicate frequent meetings continued to be common during the first decades of ecclesial life. Many of these would be rather informal, held in homes of various brethren.
Second, it does not seem consistent that Paul would tell sisters to cover their heads when praying or prophesying (11:5) and then tell them to keep utterly quiet (I Cor. 14:34) if only the memorial service is in mind in both chapters. Surely he must have reference to different occasions: one, a less formal class when sisters could participate and two, meetings of the entire ecclesia when sisters were to remain silent.
Of course sisters were to wear head coverings on the more formal occasions as well as at the home Bible classes. I Cor. 11:17,18,20 seem to mark the clear distinction in this chapter as to when Paul begins to consider conduct at the breaking of bread.
Your comments at the conclusion of your letter are very helpful. Thank you for your letter. Your interest is greatly appreciated. (T.H.)
Dancing
Dear Bro. Styles,
Loving greetings in Jesus’ name.
I would like to comment on the letter from Bro. “Footloose” regarding dancing, not by discussing the propriety or otherwise of moving our bodies to music, but by raising an issue which I feel can help put this question into perspective. This is the issue of how we use “our” time and whether we are correct in accepting, without question, the world’s assumptions regarding leisure.
We are not `footloose and fancy-free.” We have been purchased with the precious blood of the Great Creator’s only Son and at our baptism we dedicated our lives to God’s service. How far does this dedication extend? Does it merely consist of attending ecclesial functions? Is our Bible study no more than a quick skim through the daily readings? Do we regularly visit the sick and afflicted (and have words of consolation to offer when we do)? To what’ extent have we researched in our Bibles the current issues being debated in this magazine? What is our personal preaching schedule? How seriously do we take the numerous pleas for help from small ecclesias or the Bible Mission? What do we say to the following extract from a brother struggling alone to preach in South America: “…I received a letter from Bro. … and he tells me that, at present, there are no volunteers for preaching in my country. I can’t believe it! For my part, and in my complete isolation, I can only pray that the Lord of the harvest will send forth laborers…”
There is so much to do! Don’t let’s join those dying in their sins in their futile pleasures but let us show them a better way — the one that leads to life eternal. “Blessed is that servant whom his lord when he cometh shall find so doing.”
Your sister in Christ,
Anne Melles, Costa Rica
We hope every reader ponders this letter and its message.
Sometimes we act as if we expect to get the best this world has to offer and eternal life as well. That is not our calling. It is only if we lose our lives now in service to our Master that we will gain the life to come. When we start doing that, we become so absorbed in His service, the choice of leisure-time activities becomes a moot issue.
Aunt Jane Confirms Aunt Sarah
Dear Bro. Don,
I am writing in response to the comments which “Aunt Sarah” has provoked in the last few issues of the “Tidings.” I felt compelled to voice the words of a dear sister who is asleep awaiting the return of our Lord and Master. Sis. Jane, or as I would like to think of her, “Aunt” Jane Roberts, has this to say about the subject:
“As candidates for eternal life on the same principle of faith and obedience to Him, sisters are upon an equal footing to brethren; but in relation to each other, Paul informs us that the husband is the head, and that the wife ought to be subject to him. Their union in the Truth does not obliterate the natural relation established at the beginning, in which the woman, as the weaker vessel, is to accept a subordinate relation to the man.”
A word to the husbands
“If I were writing for the husbands, I would stay to point out that, with his special privileges, greater responsibilities are proportionately his. He is entrusted with the headship in the family, on the supposition that he is capable of exercising it with wisdom and kindness.
“But all husbands do not come up to the standard given them. We must not expect perfection yet. It sometimes happens that the husband is overbearing, and for gets the conditions which engender a loving and ready service on the part of his wife. He neglects the working out of his pattern, and takes to admonishing his wife about some flaw in her attitude, instead of acting such a part as would remove the flaw. This is a mistake. Such a procedure cannot possibly accomplish the object he has in view but is more likely to aggravate the evil sought to be removed.
“But I must remember I am not writing specially for his benefit, or I would point out that Paul nowhere enjoins upon the husband to assert his headship over his wife, but exhorts him to meet his wife’s loving and spontaneous subjection by following the example of Christ, with the great love with which he loved the ecclesia. However, to follow this subject, would lead me out of my province. I must leave him to think it up for himself hoping he may as the result, approve the more excellent way.”
To sisters with thoughtless husbands
“I direct my thoughts and counsel to the sister-wife who finds herself mated to such a one: her task will be a difficult one, but let her not quail before it. Let her by all means endeavor to fulfill in a becoming manner the duties and responsibilities of her position. Let the dignity and patience of her meek and quiet spirit be the means of heaping coals of fire upon the head of her faulty companion, if such she have. Let her remember that ‘a soft answer turneth away wrath, but grievous words stir up anger.’ If she has a Nabal to deal with, she can at least, like Abigail of old, show herself to be a woman of good understanding; and by her wisdom may, like her, avert much evil that would otherwise come upon her household.” (From “Chapters for the Daughters of Sarah” by Jane Roberts).
Sally given wrong advice
I am very sorry to see that one response to this problem was to advise “Sally” and her husband to visit a “professional” marriage counselor. It would be a sorry day, indeed, if we had to turn to the world to solve the marital problems of brethren and sisters in Christ! All of us have in our possession all the marriage counsel we need right here in God’s Holy Word. If we needed some more of some sort, it would have been included.
A daily reading of the Word will put us all into perspective: that we are weak and miserable creatures of dust, and that, had not Yahweh had mercy on us, we would continue on to that end.
It is obvious that the brother involved has not made it his habit to read the Word, else he would not treat his family with the disdain described, for he would be afraid of the consequences. His comments on his wife’s appearance show a lack of knowledge of God’s desire, “Whose adorning let it not be that outward adorning of plaiting the hair, and wearing of gold, or of putting on of apparel; But let it be the hidden man of the heart, in that which is not corruptible, even the ornament of a meek and quiet spirit, which is in the sight of God of great price” (I Peter 3:3-4).
The wife must point this out to him, in all meekness and find out where, perhaps, her housekeeping fails, and attempt to do better, giving none occasion to the adversary to speak reproachfully.
If our brother-husband does not heed admonitionfrom the Scripture, and continues in his folly, then it is certain what is left for him: “For if we sin wilfully after that we have received a knowledge of the truth, there remaineth no more sacrifice for sins. But a certain fearful looking for ofjudgment andfiery indignation, which shall devour the adversaries” (Heb. 10:27).
Let the sister then continue in her walk to the kingdom, daily reading God’s word and keeping herself in subjection to the commandments of Christ.. Let us be “Looking unto Jesus the author andfinisher ofourfaith; who for the joy set before him endured the cross, despising the shame, and is set down at the right hand of the throne of God…Now no chastening for the present seemeth to be joyous, but grievous: nevertheless afterward it yieldeth the peaceable fruit of righteousness unto them which are exercised thereby” (Heb. 12:2,11).
With love, your sister by His grace Margo Maier, Houston (Wilshire), TX
This submission breathes the right attitude. Space prevents full comments this month.