Principle or Pragmatism
Dear Brother Don,
Greetings in Christ Jesus.
I was delighted to read the letter from Bro. Maurice Beale in the June issue. His clarifications were most helpful. Evidently we share the same concern; we both desire to see Bible teaching considered with greater care and applied more often in a godly fashion.
Sincerely, your brother,
Silvanus
Knowing both brethren reasonably well, Silvanus has drawn the right conclusion from Bro. Beale’s comments.
Bro. Walker’s Policy
Dear Brother Don,
I am writing to correct a common misapprehension that has (I hope unwittingly) slipped into a comment you appended to some correspondence published in the July issue of The Tidings. Referring to the sad affair of Bro. A.D. Stickler, you suggested that the formation in North America of the Berean Fellowship was caused by the failure of the Christadelphian Office to withdraw fellowship from Bro. Stickler.
While it is true that the Berean Fellowship was formed because of the troubles that arose over Bro. Strickler’ s teachings, it is not correct to infer that The Christadelphian or any other magazine has the authority to extend or withhold the hand of fellowship. At the height of the controversy in the first quarter of this century Bro. C.0 . Walker (who was then the Editor of The Christadelphian) quoted some words of Bro. Thomas that are very apposite: “It is not the function of this magazine to issue bulls of excommunication.” All Editors of the Magazine have therefore resisted pressures to turn them into a Christadelphian Pope.
Questions of individual fellowship have to be determined by the ecclesias which are intimately concerned. In the absence of clear information which calls these decisions into question, they also have to be respected by other ecclesias not so well placed to make a sound and scriptural judgment.
Sincerely, your brother in the Lord Jesus Christ,
Michael Ashton,
Editor The Christadelphian
This is indeed a wise policy with which we heartily concur. Thank you for the clarification.
Arab-Christian Opposition to Jews
Dear Brother Don,
The letter in the Tidings, May, 1991 from Mrs. Halab Derb Galbon was a very sad one indeed. Sad for two reasons: 1) because she has been poisoned by Arab propaganda and 2 ) because she has been blinded by the apostate “Christian” Church.
Our five years in Jerusalem showed us the damage caused by some “Christian” missionaries. They first teach the Arabs the pagan doctrines of the Trinity, the immortality of the soul and the fallen-angel devil. Then they teach the Arabs that 2,000 years ago God rejected the Jews, evicted them from Eretz Yisrael and reneged on His exceeding great and precious promises to Abraham…
Mrs. Galbon seems at one with the Roman Catholic persecutors of Jews…
We would ask her to explain who are the twelve tribes of Israel over whom the twelve apostles will reign in the kingdom of Messiah. There are millions of Jews today who are rightly “anti-Christian” because of the behavior of the “Christian” Church for 1,600 years and because of their pagan doctrines…those same Jews will be happy to recognize Jesus as Messiah when they learn he is not the Greek god-man, “God the Son” as presented in the Trinity by their enemies, the “Christians.” We told many to recognize that situation in Gen. 45:3-15 and in the prophecy of Zech. 12:6-14…
We would ask her if she has studied the promises which God made to Abraham and his natural descendants, that in spite of their unfaithfulness, He would replant them in Eretz Yisrael as the last great sign that Jesus Messiah would soon return to reestablish the throne of his ancestor David, in Jerusalem…
Yours sincerely,
Les & Edith Johnson,
Yorkshire, UK
Bro. & Sis. Johnson recently returned from five years in Israel. In that environment, the errors of the apostate church, particularly with regard to the teachings they mention, stand out in stark clarity.
Family Life Advice Decried
To the fictitious family:
Dear people: (Why not use your true names?)
You are surely on the wrong path concerning your interpretation of I Cor. 7:1-11 and I Thess. 4:8.
For a wife to pretend feelings she does not have is a false act. She is in a sense defrauding her husband and acting as a prostitute would…
You also misunderstood June’s answer (Tidings, pg. 166). She stated that things got worse when she tried to pretend the act…
This idea of a woman having to give a man “his” rights is from the male dominated world of church men who interpret things their own way and love to have it so. Be not deceived by them.
The world of men think as the serpent thought…
We are to think upon spiritual things and put down the fleshly lusts. I Thess. 4 speaks of abstaining from them (these lusts) to the best of our abilities. We should know how to possess our vessel unto sanctification and honor, not in lust of concupiscence..Defraud not one another. A wife would be defrauding her husband if she were to pretend feelings for him she did not have even at certain times. How can a wife let her husband know something is out of order if she goes on pretending all is right between them.
Communications on a spiritual level should be restored first, then the communications in other ways will be done properly…
We are all, both man and woman, one in Christ Jesus. We are subject to men, yes, but we are not witless slaves to them.
“Church” men have, for many centuries, brainwashed women in these matters. It is time that this myth of interpretation of God’s word be put to rest in the dung hill of their fleshly minds.
A real live sister,
A. Mulder, Hamilton, ONT
The advice given was based on Scripture, not the writings of men which we have not consulted with respect to the verses in question. I Cor. 7:3-5 is perfectly clear and unambiguous. We are not to withhold pleasure from our partner except by mutual consent for a specified time period. Wives who obey the Word of God are not behaving like a prostitute.
However, the husband is to treat his wife with the consideration and love that he does his own body (Eph. 5:28). This clearly requires that he understand why, at times, his wife might decline his advances. To ignore either instruction is to ignore God, not chauvinistic men or liberated women.
I Thess. 4:6 speaks of defrauding, not one’s marriage partner, but one’s brother by immoral conduct with the other’s wife.
This whole issue came up because of the misbehavior of one partner in the marriage. Does a husband (or wife’s) misconduct of whatever sort free his or her partner to ignore Divine instruction? Of course not. Our obedience to God’s commands is not predicated upon the personal worthiness of our partner. Maintaining a healthy marriage is a multifaceted endeavor including communication, sexuality, consideration, unselfishness, etc. One aspect of this topic is that a woman should not use sex or the withholding of it to either manipulate or punish her husband.
Let us not be naive. We are affected by the trends around us. In our society, one out of every two marriages fails. We stand in jeopardy of succumbing to this frightening decline. An open discussion of marital and family problems is imperative if we are to stem the tide of infidelity and divorce sweeping our society and affecting the brotherhood. Just because some of us are growing older and have maintained a long marriage is no reason to be deceived that family life is a simple matter. We live in a complex world.
As to the format and anonymity of the “Family Life” section, please remember we receive letters expressing very serious family problems. When we feel the matter is of widespread interest, we include the material in “Family Life” while keeping any names in utmost confidence and altering specifics to avoid revealing any identities. The responses are written by the editor and then carefully reviewed by others in an attempt to preserve balance and provide useful counsel.
Tidings Policy Approved
Dear Brother Don.
We have just received the June magazine. We did enjoy and wholeheartedly agree with your editorial page. This is what makes the magazine so enjoyable, so refreshing and so shoplifting. You allow us to give our point of view and whether you agree or not, you give us your point of view and reasons why.. .We also agree that the pioneer writers were brilliant and gifted but they were also human…
We enjoy the interesting and varied articles…
With love in the Truth,
Josephine Thomas,
North Industry, OH
Thank you. We appreciate your kind words. We will continue to work to improve so as to provide a helpful service in this regard.
Divorce in Deut. 24
(We sent Bro. Bartholomew the following letters prior to publication so that his response might appear at the same time. This should be more convenient for anyone following the discussion.)
Dear Brother Don,
The article on “Divorce in Deuteronomy 24” (June, 1991) provides an excellent example of how the selective use of KJV language is used to fuzzify issues.
Bro. Bartholomew states: “Grappling with the practical realities of a hardhearted society, the Law ‘suffered’ the demand for the right to divorce, and thus, without providing permission, [Bro. Bull’s emphasis] did give in these words tacit recognition to the widespread and endemic nature of this severe problem” (emphasis mine). The allusion here is to Matt. 19:8 (“Moses because of the hardness of your hearts suffered you to put away your wives”). The meaning of the word “suffer” has changed since 1611, when it was synonymous with “permit.” This sense is clear in such passages as Acts 16:26 (“Paul was suffered to abide by himself with the soldier that guarded him”). In both of these passages, the Greek word translated “suffer” is the same, a word which according to Strong (#2010) means “allow.” A glance at an Englishman’s Greek Concordance shows that this is the sense of the [Greek] word in all its New Testament occurrences.
It is clear from these considerations that when “the Law ‘suffered’ the demand for the right to divorce” it did “provide permission,” and Bro. Bart’s statement to the contrary is contradictory…
I would like to make two further points with regard to Bro. Bartholomew’s interpretation:
- If “Yahweh…does not acknowledge the status of the second union as a marriage” (pg. 176), why are the woman and her second husband not condemned to death as adulterers (Lev. 20:10)?
- If “sexual intercourse.. .creates… horizontal relationships” comparable to the “vertical” ones enumerated in Lev. 18…we must logically expect relations between husband and wife to be proscribed following the consummation of the marriage. This is clearly absurd.
Your brother in Christ,
Aaron Bull,
New Westminster, BC
Dear Brother Don,
Before making our points, we want to emphatically state that we completely agree with the author in the absolute seriousness with which he takes marriage. However, we feel the article on Deut. 24 is a good example of two problems of Biblical exposition that need to be avoided:
- Poor methodology even though a general point is valid.
- The distortions that result from approaching a passage with a pre-conceived idea which is not supported by the text.
Our motive in pointing these out is a concern for any in our community who may not currently be at a point in their scriptural understanding to see the gross faultiness in such an exposition and, as a result, would be subject to the scripturally unfounded austerity it imposes.
The author sets out to show the KJV translation is incorrect by citing a number of alternative versions which he claims provide “the correct translation.” Other than the author’s personal assertion, there is no authority offered to confirm that conclusion. We know Bro. Bart is not a Hebrew or Greek scholar and therefore could not make such a statement on any personal authority. How do we know he is right?
Secondly, his list of alternative versions conspicuously includes the RV and Rotherham’ s to support a rephrasing of verse 1 but omits them from the support for rephrasing verse 2. The reason is clear: those versions do not support Bro. Bart’s rewording of verse 2. Rotherham’ s reads: “When a man taketh a woman and marrieth her then shall it be if she find not favor in his eyes because he hath found in her some matter of shame that he shall write her a scroll of divorcement and put it into her hand, and shall send her forth out of his house. And when she cometh forth out of his house then may she go her way, and become another man’s” (Deut. 24:1-2 Roth.). When taken in total, this translation could be used to support exactly the opposite position than that taken by the author. Yet in his exposition, only one phrase was strategically extracted and shown to the reader. This brings an entire exposition into suspicion.
Thirdly, the author suggests that because Israel was so stubborn, God flexed His rules to meet their ability to follow them. Why isn’t that the case today since our society is at least as bad? And if God really works this way, why didn’t He flex all of His laws to meet the people’s ability to obey them?
Fourthly, the defilement which the woman experienced does not “completely vitiate the idea that this passage permits divorce and remarriage under the law.” Leviticus 21:1-3 where the very same Hebrew word is used, demonstrates there are circumstances where this defilement was not considered an offense or improper while at the same time still considered defilement. The woman in Deut. 24 could remarry, be ceremonially defiled and the situation still be considered legitimate by God.
We feel the law of Deut. 24:1-4 existed to eliminate any fickle practice on the part of husbands. They would not be able to send wives away with the idea of getting them back once a domestic situation was resolved or an objectionable attitude changed. This law would ensure that the option to divorce would be taken only when it was thoroughly thought out.
Yours in Christ,
Andy Muniz, Royal Oak, MI
Dear Brother Don,
As iron sharpeneth iron, we appreciate the criticisms of our article on “Divorce in Deut. 24:1-4.” If Bible exposition on fundamental matters does not hold water, it should be shot down in flames.
We agree with Bro. Joe Banta (July issue) that there is no question of incest and he is right about the use of ish for husband; we thank him for this. But he errs in his conclusion that “scripture ..nowhere denies that the second union is a marriage.” It may have been a marriage in the eyes of men but certainly not before Yahweh. In Deut. 24.4, we read that the second union “defiled” (Heb. tame) the woman. Tame is never used of an acceptable marriage before Yahweh. As we wrote originally, “The second sexual union defiled the woman, completely vitiating the idea that this passage permits divorce and remarriage under the Law.”
Bro. Bull gives the meaning of “suffer” in the New Testament. Our article dealt with Deut. 24 — not the New Testament. Nevertheless, he is correct that suffer (Gk. epitrepo) means to allow or permit. Further, it means to give leave, to give license. “License” can mean abuse of freedom, disregard of law or propriety. He is very selective in his choice from the Englishman’s passages. We would have chosen Acts 21:40: “And when he (the captain) had given him (Paul) license…”
Bro. Bull misses the whole point of Matt. 19:8, the passage he introduces. God allowed/permitted/suffered divorce in Deut. 24 because of “the hardness of your hearts.” We should give consideration to the significance of the whole statement, not concentrate on the concordance meaning of a word. Jesus said they were allowed/permitted/suffered divorce because they were hardhearted! A hard-hearted man will not gain the kingdom (Rom. 2:5,16; Heb. 3:8-12, etc.). For God (or Christ) to permit or suffer divorce by a hardhearted man surely cannot be interpreted to mean that God, or Christ, condones divorce? Surely the man is self-condemned.
Now, in reply to brother Muniz, a word about texts. In The Testimony of May 1990, there is an excellent article entitled: “The Text of the Greek New Testament,” wherein the writer demonstrates the validity of the Textus Receptus from which we receive our KJV, and also, in contrast, shows how far off the mark were Westcott & Hort, in whom Rotherham places so much confidence. If Rotherham’ s authority for his translation of the New Testament is questionable, then why should we trust his Old Testament translation? This article concludes with a recommendation that we stay with the KJV and the NKJV -implying the latter is the best modern version.
To return to Deut. 24:1-4: we can add the NASB , NKJV and Green’ s Interlinear Hebrew English Bible (which nearly always agrees with the KJV– but not in this case) to our original list of versions which supports our statement that in verse 2 there is no permission given for the wife’s action. As we noted, this is also supported by the RSV, NIV, NEB, Y g’ s Literal, JB and Moffat. One does not have to be a Hebrew scholar to decide “the correct translation is found” in these nine versions. The “Christadelphian” magazine introduced an article on Bible texts with, “The only test in the end, is to compare versions one with the other. ..(making use of the concordances and lexicons now so readily available.” This is precisely what we have done. Bro. Muniz hangs all his rather extreme statements (e.g. “gross faultiness,” etc.) on our citation of Rotherham’ s version. We have agreed Rotherham is suspect. Yet surely the only reason any Bible student would cling to the authority of the KJV in this case (as opposed to nine widely recognized translations — and, in fact, there are more) is because that is all he can find to support a preconceived, unscriptural and unsound theory.
In one breath, Bro. Muniz accuses us of “unfounded austerity” in our exposition, and in the next of allowing God to “flex the rules” to accommodate Israel. He cannot have it both ways. We do not impute motives to our God. Our goal, which hopefully we have accomplished, is to give a sound scriptural exposition of one passage that is constantly misused to condone divorce in the brotherhood today.
It is true that Lev. 21:1-3 covers ceremonial defilement. But this was an exclusive provision for the high priest and his sons in their mourning for immediate members of their family. It is a gross perversion of scripture to imply that a divorced woman, driven into an unacceptable relationship with another man, can be placed under the same category of ceremonial defilement. Bro. Muniz’ closing statements that “the woman in Deut. 24 could remarry, be ceremonially defiled and the situation still be considered legitimate by God” and “This law would ensure that the option to divorce would be taken only when it was thoroughly thought out” are given with absolutely no scriptural support nor proof and can only be classed as the product of wishful thinking.
We have confirmed that Yahweh, in the Deut. passage, does not permit divorce and the second union was not acceptable to Him. The “one flesh” bond of marriage instituted in the Garden of Eden and reinforced in Lev. 18 is not dissolved by legal or customary divorce, nor by sexual relations with a third party.